A New Day
today starts a new day.
Pay attention to those times when you feel like you are rushing. Rushing does not have to do with speed. You can rush moving slowly, and you can rush moving quickly.
I find that I tell my employees more and more to slow down and take a breath when things are busy at work. The idea that, yes it is busy, but also we make more mistakes when we're rushing is a hard one to get across to some people.
December 15th, 2018
If you feel at a loss for what to say to the people you care about when the going gets tough, just start with "I love you and I'm here." You don't always need to have the answers.— Lucy Bellwood (@LuBellWoo) October 23, 2018
October 24th, 2018
You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.
This is a solid quote. And a solid goal.
One that I am striving towards.
August 31st, 2018
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossum.
Yes. Yes, we need more of this. We must be more grateful for the good that we see in others.
August 10th, 2018
Seth Godin on adult temper tantrums:
Toddlers have tantrums. Adults should solve problems.
April 25th, 2018
Derek Powazek shares some good thoughts about adulthood.
Adulthood is about learning your limits. Adulthood is about letting things go. Adulthood is letting one thing lead to another. So don't let your adult life be dictated by the idiot you were as a kid.
Life is growth and chance and struggle and sometimes it's good to let the past be the past.
Patrick Rhone shares a thought about kindness that struck me.
But, kindness is like that. Sometimes, this thing we do that we think will have a huge impact is a small gesture to those that receive it. Other times, the smallest gesture of kindness can be life-changing. We, the giver, don’t get to decide what has meaning and what doesn’t. We don’t get to know up front. And that’s good. Just be kind, and do kind things, big and small. Because, any kindness can outlast us.
We can never know how someone will take our actions. So, a good idea is to default to kindness. After all, we never really know what other people are struggling with unless they tell us.
In an email newsletter Shawn Blanc shared a sentence that rings like a universal truth.
Clarity about what matters also gives clarity about what does not.
It's so simple and so profound. If you find what matters then you will also find what does not matter.
Time to stop looking for shortcuts and time to start insisting on a long, viable path instead.
-Seth Godin on his blog about marketing.
But, I think this applies to more than just marketing. I think it applies to pretty much everything. Quit looking for the easy way to do things that will get you there faster (goals, challenges, tasks, whatever) and start doing things in a way that might take longer but, will be more satisfying.
I need to start doing this in my life.
I need to start working on my goals with a viable path in mind instead of looking for quick fixes that only approximate what I want.